My wife and I have been married for 14 years. She retired last summer. I am still working.She has one adult son by a previous marriage. He is married with 2 small children. He and his wife are both gainfully employed. My step son is not so bad but his wife has no problem asking for money, which she does on a regular basis.My wife feels guilty if she says no because of the grand kids. I am really becoming quite tired of all this. If I say anything to my wife, we end up arguing.
I want to sit The wifes son and daughter in law down and have a serious talk with them but she does not want to do this.Some thing has to change.