Thank you guys!! I will look at the progressive springs for when i change the fork oil.
Yesterday, it felt even looser. I got home, put the bike on the lift, did not feel any movement front to back or anything (at least not that I could feel), the steering had no resistance, it would not stay put anywhere, it will move side to side if you blew next to it.
Remove the top of the triple tree, and with my hand undid the nut holding the bearing and the top nut with the washer as well, all come together.
Front end dropped. I realized it might have been too loose.
I put the bearing back in place, lifted the front (from the fender) to be able to screw the nut again. And did it per the video on bareass, by hand, and added a little extra afterwards.
I tested it on the street it seemed ok, will have to do my normal trip to see if it made a difference.
I have two concerns:
1. wwould the nut normally be unscrewed by hand, that easy?
2. how can i be sure i sat everything right, since i was holding the front end from the fender, all the way so I could screw the nut back in place? Is there an angle I need to make sure the front end is at?
Thank you all for the help this far. It has been appreciated.